February 2011 - Junior http://au.christiantoday.com/article/junior/10406.htm
March - Everywhere you go you always take the weather with you
http://au.christiantoday.com/article/everywhere-you-go-you-always-take-the-weather-with-you/10724.htm
Friday, April 15, 2011
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
A few photos...A few updates
| A photo from Movember 2010 with my other son Joseph. |
| West Cricket Club Division 3 |
| Home brewing is still such a big part of Modlin family life |
| Another visit from a former Brisbane Bullets legend- Andre Moore. |
| Albrecht House Vice-Captain Kurtis Modlin |
| Oh look, it's raining in Alice again and the river is flowing again. |
| Manny, Joseph (buried), Rioli and Eugene. 4 of the fellas I took away on "Strong Way" camp recently to Simpsons Gap for 2 nights. A good break and some tough times, but enjoyable. |
Sunday, March 20, 2011
Big Sister Kate comes to Visit
I seem to start all these posts now with "Gee it's been a long time". Not sure why. I have been watching too much TV again and been very tired coming home at night. I have now been doing some night work at Yirara, coaching Basketball, football training, running a transition to adulthood course (more on that later) for some 13/14 year old "fellas" and just trying to make the most out of the year. Big sister Kate Fraser came for a visit. This excited the boys immensely and after Joseph's extremely tearful goodbye to Kate and Christmas time. It did take him awhile to warm to her again. He had another tearful performance at the airport when she left Alice Springs 10 days later. We love having her around and she certainly is becoming a Modlin more and more....poor thing. She photographs everything, but we have loved having the photos. As you can see, it rained and rained and rained out here in the desert. Not very brown at all and the photos are quite stunning. We actually couldn't take her very far, most of the roads were cut and the rain just did not stop.
Red mud! Lovely to play in...harsh on the clothes! I don't do the washing so it doesn't faze me that much.
Red mud! Lovely to play in...harsh on the clothes! I don't do the washing so it doesn't faze me that much.
Monday, February 7, 2011
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Interesting Start to Term 4
It has been awhile since I have had to work really hard at Yirara. The kids have come back quite unsettled and it certainly has been a testing time. This does not mean I don't enjoy what I am doing, I have just been taken out of my comfort zone and had to again rely on being well prepared, consistent and really live by the saying "firm, fair and friendly". The quality of relationships I have established with many of the students is still there, I just have to work harder to keep their focus on what I am trying to achieve in my lessons, and to maintain their interest. I won't give up, I have been having some good night sleeps though and been praying a lot more, which is not necessarily a bad thing. I have picked up a Grade 10 English class and had to get my mind back to being inside the classroom. I tried to get out of teaching it by saying "Well, if i have to lose a PE class to teach English, I will teach them Shakespeare!" Everyone thought that was a wonderful idea, so it teaches me it is sometimes better to keep my mouth shut.
| Hopefully you can see Kurtis and me up the top of the canyon. |
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Father's Day 2010
I had the opportunity to speak at church again (twice in 3 years!!) and it was Father's Day. Due to mine and Belinda's involvement in Sunday School, we decided to do a kid's service. Here is the text of my message (excuse the note form in some places...this allowed me to go with the flow so to speak):
I have had a great Father’s Day with my three boys…
Despite the mess of the world, I am feeling very happy and blessed, just by the opportunity to be their dad. Of all the things I have done, this really is the thing I like the best, and have come to regard as the most important.
The United States have Father’s Day on a different day than us (June 20th this year), and I came across a speech given by President Obama on that day. Sometimes the most important things are not at the top of the news headlines. I didn’t see much discussion on the news channels about this particular speech of his. And I found myself quite moved by the president's words about being a father.
Obama posed a simple question: "How can we as a nation -- not just the government, but businesses, community groups, and concerned citizens (and I think we should include churches) -- how can we all come together to help fathers meet their responsibilities to our families and communities?"
He spoke honestly about all the problems caused by the absence of fathers in children's lives, and spoke personally about his own absent father: "I say all this as someone who grew up without a father in my own life. He left my family when I was two years old. And while I was lucky to have a wonderful mother and loving grandparents who poured everything they had into me and my sister, I still felt the weight of that absence. It’s something that leaves a hole in a child’s life that no government can fill." Barack Obama’s own life experience is a big part of why this issue is so important to him, and why his two little girls are so central in his life.
He said: "We can talk all we want here about issues like education and health care and crime; we can build good schools; we can put money into creating good jobs; we can do everything we can to keep our streets safe -- but government (and maybe we should add as well here the church or the church youth group or the church’s kids program!!) can’t keep our kids from looking for trouble on those streets. Government can’t force a kid to pick up a book or make sure that the homework gets done. Government (or the church!! Or your kids school!!!) can’t be there day in, day out, to provide discipline and guidance and the love that it takes to raise a child. That’s our job as fathers, as mothers, as guardians for our children."
And, as Obama often does, he spoke about the difference in having a kid and being a father: "The fact is, it’s easy to become a father, technically -- any guy can do that. It’s hard to live up to the lifelong responsibilities that come with fatherhood. And it’s a challenge even in good times, when our families are doing well. It’s especially difficult when times are tough, families are straining just to keep everything together."
Obama zeroed in on the heart of his message for Father’s Day: "Here’s the key message I think all of us want to send today to fathers all across the country: Our children don’t need us to be superheroes. They don’t need us to be perfect. They do need us to be present. They need us to show up and give it our best shot, no matter what else is going on in our lives. They need us to show them -- not just with words, but with deeds -- that they, those kids, are always our first priority. Those family meals, afternoons in the park, bedtime stories; the encouragement we give, the questions we answer, the limits we set, the example we set of persistence in the face of difficulty and hardship -- those things add up over time, and they shape a child’s character, build their core, teach them to trust in life and to enter into it with confidence and with hope and with determination.”
Then the president said something that I know he truly believes, and made me feel very grateful that he does. He said, "The work of raising our children is the most important job in this country, and it’s all of our responsibilities -- mothers and fathers."
He then went on to say, "Now, I can’t legislate fatherhood -- I can’t force anybody to love a child. But what we can do is send a clear message to our fathers that there is no excuse for failing to meet their obligations. (NUDGE) What we can do is make it easier for fathers who make responsible choices and harder for those who avoid those choices. (NUDGE, NUDGE) What we can do is come together and support fathers who are willing to step up and be good partners and parents and providers ... But ultimately, we know that the decision to be a good father -- that’s up to us, each of us, as individuals. It’s one that men across this country are making every single day -- attending those school events; parent-teacher conferences; coaching sporting teams, scrimping and saving, or working overtime to provide for their family.”
I think it is both rare and significant when a political leader gets personal in an authentic way. To admit mistakes and failures is not something politicians normally do, and this president has been criticized for it. But when he spoke of his own struggles and joys as a parent, every dad who heard him could easily identify.
Even when we give it our best efforts, there will still be plenty of days of struggle and heartache when we don’t quite measure up. Even with all the good fortune and support Belinda and I have had in our lives, I’ve made plenty of mistakes as a parent. I’ve lost count of all the times when the demands of work or my love of sport and TV have taken me from the duties of fatherhood. And I know I’ve missed out on moments in my sons’ lives that I’ll never get back. But I also know the feeling that one author described when she wrote that ‘to have a child ... is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.’
I don't think I have ever heard a better description of what it feels like to be a parent -- to have a child is to have your heart walking around outside your body. In the future, how will your family be seen by those you come into contact with? How will your sons or daughters be characterized?
All the president of the United States wants to be is to be the best Dad he can be to the 2 girls in his life. And I believe he means that.
When Obama talked about his own deepest feelings about his girls, he was getting to the hearts of every dad who was listening and that is what I am trying to do today.
I’m sure a lot of fathers here know that same memory that I have, of driving home with their son or daughter from the hospital. Your emotions swinging between unadulterated joy and sheer terror.
Yet in the end, all I can really think about at times is if I could be anything in life, is that I would be a good father. And like a lot of the men here, since that time I’ve found there’s nothing else in my life that compares to the pleasures I take in spending time with my boys.
Nothing else comes close to the pride I feel in their achievement and the satisfaction I get in watching them grow into strong, confident, God loving, young men who might just want to be like their Dad who is striving every day to be like Jesus.
Over the course of my life, I have been a student, worked in the Myer Sporting Department, finished 3 degrees, worked as a teacher in 3 different schools and held down a vast number of roles and management positions, played Australian Football for 5 different clubs and played football in 4 different states, been on mission trips to Torres Strait over the last 5 years, been a teacher in Sunday school and I am sure I could go on about the Russell Modlin story forever.
But of all the things I have ever done, being a good father and husband is the job that now feels like the most important one to me. It's also the greatest privilege, honour and blessing I've ever had. But I can say without hesitation that the most challenging, most fulfilling, most important job I will have during my time on this Earth is to be Kurtis’, Elijah’s and Joseph’s dad.
Vulnerable and exposed!!
I want all boys/sons, fathers, husbands, uncles, grandfathers to listen carefully now…if you feel the same way as I do, if you feel something I have said today has stirred your heart, come join me now up here on stage. To show this group of believers today, to stand before God together as brothers in Christ, that you are ready to tackle the most important job in the world today, whether now or into the future.
Fatherhood: The Best Job in the World
I have had a great Father’s Day with my three boys…
Despite the mess of the world, I am feeling very happy and blessed, just by the opportunity to be their dad. Of all the things I have done, this really is the thing I like the best, and have come to regard as the most important.
The United States have Father’s Day on a different day than us (June 20th this year), and I came across a speech given by President Obama on that day. Sometimes the most important things are not at the top of the news headlines. I didn’t see much discussion on the news channels about this particular speech of his. And I found myself quite moved by the president's words about being a father.
Obama posed a simple question: "How can we as a nation -- not just the government, but businesses, community groups, and concerned citizens (and I think we should include churches) -- how can we all come together to help fathers meet their responsibilities to our families and communities?"
He spoke honestly about all the problems caused by the absence of fathers in children's lives, and spoke personally about his own absent father: "I say all this as someone who grew up without a father in my own life. He left my family when I was two years old. And while I was lucky to have a wonderful mother and loving grandparents who poured everything they had into me and my sister, I still felt the weight of that absence. It’s something that leaves a hole in a child’s life that no government can fill." Barack Obama’s own life experience is a big part of why this issue is so important to him, and why his two little girls are so central in his life.
He said: "We can talk all we want here about issues like education and health care and crime; we can build good schools; we can put money into creating good jobs; we can do everything we can to keep our streets safe -- but government (and maybe we should add as well here the church or the church youth group or the church’s kids program!!) can’t keep our kids from looking for trouble on those streets. Government can’t force a kid to pick up a book or make sure that the homework gets done. Government (or the church!! Or your kids school!!!) can’t be there day in, day out, to provide discipline and guidance and the love that it takes to raise a child. That’s our job as fathers, as mothers, as guardians for our children."
And, as Obama often does, he spoke about the difference in having a kid and being a father: "The fact is, it’s easy to become a father, technically -- any guy can do that. It’s hard to live up to the lifelong responsibilities that come with fatherhood. And it’s a challenge even in good times, when our families are doing well. It’s especially difficult when times are tough, families are straining just to keep everything together."
Obama zeroed in on the heart of his message for Father’s Day: "Here’s the key message I think all of us want to send today to fathers all across the country: Our children don’t need us to be superheroes. They don’t need us to be perfect. They do need us to be present. They need us to show up and give it our best shot, no matter what else is going on in our lives. They need us to show them -- not just with words, but with deeds -- that they, those kids, are always our first priority. Those family meals, afternoons in the park, bedtime stories; the encouragement we give, the questions we answer, the limits we set, the example we set of persistence in the face of difficulty and hardship -- those things add up over time, and they shape a child’s character, build their core, teach them to trust in life and to enter into it with confidence and with hope and with determination.”
Then the president said something that I know he truly believes, and made me feel very grateful that he does. He said, "The work of raising our children is the most important job in this country, and it’s all of our responsibilities -- mothers and fathers."
He then went on to say, "Now, I can’t legislate fatherhood -- I can’t force anybody to love a child. But what we can do is send a clear message to our fathers that there is no excuse for failing to meet their obligations. (NUDGE) What we can do is make it easier for fathers who make responsible choices and harder for those who avoid those choices. (NUDGE, NUDGE) What we can do is come together and support fathers who are willing to step up and be good partners and parents and providers ... But ultimately, we know that the decision to be a good father -- that’s up to us, each of us, as individuals. It’s one that men across this country are making every single day -- attending those school events; parent-teacher conferences; coaching sporting teams, scrimping and saving, or working overtime to provide for their family.”
I think it is both rare and significant when a political leader gets personal in an authentic way. To admit mistakes and failures is not something politicians normally do, and this president has been criticized for it. But when he spoke of his own struggles and joys as a parent, every dad who heard him could easily identify.
Even when we give it our best efforts, there will still be plenty of days of struggle and heartache when we don’t quite measure up. Even with all the good fortune and support Belinda and I have had in our lives, I’ve made plenty of mistakes as a parent. I’ve lost count of all the times when the demands of work or my love of sport and TV have taken me from the duties of fatherhood. And I know I’ve missed out on moments in my sons’ lives that I’ll never get back. But I also know the feeling that one author described when she wrote that ‘to have a child ... is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.’
I don't think I have ever heard a better description of what it feels like to be a parent -- to have a child is to have your heart walking around outside your body. In the future, how will your family be seen by those you come into contact with? How will your sons or daughters be characterized?
All the president of the United States wants to be is to be the best Dad he can be to the 2 girls in his life. And I believe he means that.
When Obama talked about his own deepest feelings about his girls, he was getting to the hearts of every dad who was listening and that is what I am trying to do today.
I’m sure a lot of fathers here know that same memory that I have, of driving home with their son or daughter from the hospital. Your emotions swinging between unadulterated joy and sheer terror.
Yet in the end, all I can really think about at times is if I could be anything in life, is that I would be a good father. And like a lot of the men here, since that time I’ve found there’s nothing else in my life that compares to the pleasures I take in spending time with my boys.
Nothing else comes close to the pride I feel in their achievement and the satisfaction I get in watching them grow into strong, confident, God loving, young men who might just want to be like their Dad who is striving every day to be like Jesus.
Over the course of my life, I have been a student, worked in the Myer Sporting Department, finished 3 degrees, worked as a teacher in 3 different schools and held down a vast number of roles and management positions, played Australian Football for 5 different clubs and played football in 4 different states, been on mission trips to Torres Strait over the last 5 years, been a teacher in Sunday school and I am sure I could go on about the Russell Modlin story forever.
But of all the things I have ever done, being a good father and husband is the job that now feels like the most important one to me. It's also the greatest privilege, honour and blessing I've ever had. But I can say without hesitation that the most challenging, most fulfilling, most important job I will have during my time on this Earth is to be Kurtis’, Elijah’s and Joseph’s dad.
Vulnerable and exposed!!
I want all boys/sons, fathers, husbands, uncles, grandfathers to listen carefully now…if you feel the same way as I do, if you feel something I have said today has stirred your heart, come join me now up here on stage. To show this group of believers today, to stand before God together as brothers in Christ, that you are ready to tackle the most important job in the world today, whether now or into the future.
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Modlin Family Road Trip - Day 11 - Tennant Creek to Alice Springs - The End
We are home. Rather than giving a standard Russell summary, I will hand over to Belinda to give the final summary of the trip and her reflections of our time away. Enjoy.
Hello fellow blog readers. I thought it was time I added my two cents worth to this blog thing. It sure has been an adventure for us all and we have more than thoroughly enjoyed our road trip. Today was a great day because it meant we could get home to our own beds, but it was also a sad day because arriving home signalled the end of our holiday, plus a truck load of washing and unpacking for me!!
We left our very average accomodation in Tennant Creek to begin our journey to Modlin Motel. Today our travels took to the Devil's Marbles, Wauchope and Ti Tree. It was more of a quick stop at each place to take pictures, get fuel or go to the loo!! We did run into a native at the Devil's Marbles...a snake. We have yet to identify what types it was.
It was an awesome experience exploring the territory with my wonderful family. The scenery and landscape is wonderfully breathtaking and makes you appreciate what an incredible creation we are a part of. Interesting rock formations, interesting little creatures that make the desert their home, beautiful birdlife and surprising little pockets of paradise...just amazing. Also, so nice to be building special memories together with the boys. We shared lots of fun and laughs. The boys are now looking forward to going tthrough all the photos again and talking about the things we did. For Elijah, it's talking about all the different places we stayed and which one he liked the best!! Thanks to everyone who followed us on our road trip. Watch this space for the next Modlin family adventure.
| Another well trained tourist. |
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